When we talk about self-esteem, we refer to the assessment that a person has of themselves. It is a fundamental aspect of personality that influences the way we relate to others, our decisions and our perception of the world around us. Self-esteem can be variable and can sometimes be presented in an inflated form. In this article, we will explore eight common traits and characteristics in people with inflated self-esteem.
1. Constant need for external validation
People with inflated self-esteem tend to rely heavily on the approval and recognition of others to feel valued. They constantly seek external validation and may go to extremes to obtain it. This excessive need for approval can lead to manipulative or self-centered behaviors.
2. Superiority attitude
A common characteristic in people with inflated self-esteem is their superiority attitude. They tend to believe that they are better than others in various aspects and tend to look down on those they consider inferior. This attitude can manifest itself in subtle or more direct ways, but it always reflects an exaggerated perception of one's own value.
3. Lack of empathy
Lack of empathy is another distinctive feature in people with inflated self-esteem. They may have difficulty putting themselves in others' shoes, showing understanding, or empathizing with their emotions. This inability to connect emotionally with others can make your interpersonal relationships difficult and cause conflicts.
4. Vulnerability to criticism
Despite their apparent security and self-confidence, people with inflated self-esteem are especially vulnerable to criticism and rejection. Behind his façade of superiority, hides an emotional fragility that can be easily hurt by negative comments or situations that challenge his self-image.
5. Tendency to overvalue achievements
People with inflated self-esteem tend to overvalue their own achievements and abilities. They may exaggerate their successes, take credit that does not belong to them, or minimize the contribution of others to their achievements. This tendency to presumption can generate resentment in those around you and undermine your credibility.
6. Need to constantly stand out
Constantly seeking to stand out and attract attention is another characteristic trait of people with inflated self-esteem. They may resort to flashy or extravagant behaviors to be the center of attention, whether in social gatherings, at work or in any context where they feel valued by others.
7. Difficulty accepting constructive criticism
Constructive criticism is often difficult to receive for people with inflated self-esteem. They may interpret suggestions or advice as personal attacks on their worth or competence, leading them to react with resistance, justifications, or even aggression. This lack of openness to feedback can limit your personal and professional growth.
8. Underlying insecurity
Despite their apparent security and self-confidence, people with inflated self-esteem can hide a deep underlying insecurity. Their constant need for validation, their superior attitude, and their vulnerability to criticism are manifestations of this insecurity, which they mask behind an image of self-sufficiency and perfection.
Conclusion
In summary , people with inflated self-esteem present a series of traits and characteristics that reflect a distorted perception of themselves and others. Their dependence on external validation, their attitude of superiority and their difficulty empathizing are some of the aspects that define their way of relating to the world and those around them. Recognizing these traits can be the first step to working on developing a healthier and more balanced self-esteem, based on self-knowledge, acceptance and personal growth.
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