Positive education is a philosophy that is based on encouraging desired behavior through positive stimuli and building a respectful and affectionate relationship with children. Instead of punishing unwanted behaviors, we seek to reinforce and reward positive behaviors. This way of educating promotes self-esteem, self-control, autonomy and mutual respect. Below are 15 examples and practical strategies to educate positively.
1. Positive reinforcement
Positive reinforcement consists of praising or rewarding children's desirable behaviors. It can be a word of encouragement, a caress, a hug or even a small reward. The objective is to reinforce these behaviors so that they are repeated in the future.
2. Set clear limits
It is important to set clear and consistent limits so that children know what is expected of them. The limits must be reasonable and appropriate to the age and development of each child. It is essential to communicate clearly and respectfully what the rules and consequences of non-compliance are.
3. Promote autonomy
Allowing children to make decisions and take responsibility for their actions promotes their autonomy and self-esteem. Giving them the opportunity to choose within pre-established limits helps them develop decision-making skills and makes them feel valued.
4. Teaching by example
Children learn primarily through observation and imitation. Therefore, it is important for adults to model the values and behaviors they want to instill in children. Being a positive role model is key in positive education.
5. Effective communication
Open, respectful and empathetic communication is essential in positive education. Actively listening to children, validating their emotions and speaking to them with respect are key aspects of establishing a relationship of trust and understanding.
6. Establish routines and schedules
Routines and schedules provide structure and security for children. Knowing what to expect and when helps them feel safe and organized. It also facilitates the transition between activities and avoids unnecessary conflicts.
7. Encourage problem solving
Teaching children to solve problems in a constructive and empathetic way helps them develop communication, cooperation and conflict resolution skills. Encouraging them to find solutions together promotes their autonomy and self-control.
8. Celebrate achievements
Recognizing and celebrating children's achievements and efforts motivates them to continue trying and develop a positive attitude toward learning and personal growth. Sincere and specific praise strengthens your self-esteem and self-confidence.
9. Practice empathy
Encouraging empathy in children helps them understand the emotions and needs of others, promoting healthy and respectful interpersonal relationships. Showing empathy towards children also strengthens the emotional bond between parents and children.
10. Establish logical consequences
Logical consequences are those that are directly related to inappropriate behavior and that seek to teach a lesson without punishing or humiliating the child. For example, if a child throws his toy, the logical consequence would be to pick it up and put it away for a while.
11. Promote collaboration and teamwork
Teaching children to collaborate, work as a team and value the abilities of others encourages solidarity, cooperation and mutual respect. Carrying out activities together and assigning shared tasks helps them develop these skills.
12. Maintaining a positive attitude
A positive and optimistic attitude on the part of adults is essential to creating an environment of positive learning and growth. Transmitting enthusiasm, patience and confidence in children's abilities motivates them to explore, learn and overcome challenges.
13. Set visual reminders
Visual reminders, such as posters, drawings, or calendars, can be helpful in reminding children of rules, routines, and tasks to complete. These visual reminders help them anticipate what is coming next and organize themselves autonomously.
14. Promote progressive independence
Allowing children to carry out age-appropriate tasks and activities independently helps them develop autonomy, responsibility and self-confidence skills. Giving them the opportunity to gradually take on more responsibilities prepares them for adult life.
15. Practice patience and understanding
Positive education requires patience and understanding on the part of adults. Understanding that children are in a learning process, that they make mistakes and that they need time and support to fully develop is essential to educate with positivity and respect.