Friendships are a fundamental part of people's lives. Getting to know your friends in depth allows you to strengthen bonds, create a more authentic connection, and enjoy a more meaningful relationship. Below, we present a list of 90 questions that will help you get to know your friends more and better, from their tastes and passions to their deepest fears and dreams.
Knowing your tastes and preferences
1. What is your favorite movie of all time and why?
2. What musical genre makes you feel better in difficult times?
3. What kind of food comforts you when you are sad?
4. Do you have a passion or hobby that few people know about?
5. What is your favorite book and why did it mark you so much?
6. What place in the world would you like to visit and why?
7. Are you more into coffee or tea? Why?
8. Do you prefer the sea or the mountains to rest and disconnect?
9. Are you more of a dog or cat person? Why?
10. What is your favorite color and what sensations does it convey to you?
Discovering your thoughts and emotions
11. What do you value most in a friendship?
12. How do you define yourself in three words?
13. What inspires you most in life?
14. What is your biggest fear and how do you face it?
15. What makes you feel grateful in your daily life?
16. What is your biggest dream in life and what are you doing to achieve it?
17. What has been the happiest moment of your life and why?
18. How would you like to be remembered when you are gone?
19. What does success mean to you and how do you pursue it?
20. What is your biggest current challenge and how are you facing it?
Exploring your past and your experiences
21. What was your childhood like and what is your happiest memory from that period?
22. Who have been the most influential people in your life and why?
23. What important lessons have you learned from your mistakes?
24. What has been the most important lesson that a difficult experience taught you?
25. What significant changes have you experienced in recent years?
26. What is the most exciting adventure you have experienced so far?
27. What is the funniest story that has happened to you in your life?
28. What would you like to change about the past if you could?
29. How do you see yourself in the near future in terms of your goals and projects?
30. What is your fondest memory with your friends?
Going deeper into their personality and values
31. How do you react in situations of stress or pressure?
32. What are your fundamental principles and values in life?
33. What aspect of your personality do you think is least known to others?
34. How would your friends describe you in three words?
35. What trait do you value most in yourself and why?
36. What is your greatest strength and how has it helped you in your life?
37. What makes you most proud of yourself?
38. What makes you angry or frustrated more easily?
39. How do you deal with criticism and negative comments?
40. What role do you think friendship plays in your emotional well-being?
Revealing your interests and curiosities
41. What talent would you like to develop or improve in the future?
42. What is your biggest hobby or hobby in life?
43. What motivates you to get up every morning with energy and enthusiasm?
44. What is the ability that surprises you most in others?
45. What would you like to learn or experience soon?
46. What is the activity that relaxes you the most and makes you feel at peace?
47. What do you find most interesting or enriching in a conversation?
48. What makes you feel more connected to your friends?
49. What place transmits calm and serenity to you every time you visit it?
50. What is your greatest wish for the future and what drives you to fulfill it?
Revealing your opinions and perspectives
51. What is your most controversial opinion on a current topic?
52. What do you think is the most important thing to build a better society?
53. What is your vision of the world and how does it influence your decisions?
54. What do you value most in a deep and meaningful conversation?
55. What is your position in situations of injustice or inequality?
56. What role do you think empathy plays in interpersonal relationships?
57. What is your biggest challenge in expressing your opinions and feelings?
58. What makes you change your mind about a certain topic or situation?
59. How would you like to contribute to the well-being of your environment and community?
60. What would you like people to know or understand better about you?
Sharing your dreams and aspirations
61. What is your most ambitious goal and how do you plan to achieve it?
62. What inspires you to keep going when you face obstacles?
63. What would you like to achieve in the next five years of your life?
64. What is your biggest dream that you have not yet fulfilled and why?
65. What motivates you to persevere in your personal objectives and goals?
66. What areas of your life would you like to improve or enhance in the future?
67. How do you see yourself in the distant future in terms of personal fulfillment?
68. What legacy would you like to leave for future generations?
69. Is there a goal or dream that you have abandoned and would like to return to?
70. What is your greatest motivation to achieve your dreams and aspirations?
Exploring your relationship with yourself and others
71. What do you value most about our friendship?
72. How do you feel when we spend time together and why?
73. What would you most like to share or do together in the future?
74. How would you describe our relationship in a single sentence?
75. What do you think has united us and strengthened us as friends over time?
76. What skill or quality of yours do you find most enriching for our friendship?
77. What do you expect from me as a friend and how can I best support you?
78. How do you think we can continue to strengthen our friendship in the future?
79. What moments or shared experiences do you consider most meaningful to you?
80. How do you think our friendship has influenced your life in a positive way?
Recapitulating and consolidating mutual knowledge
81. What discovery about yourself surprised you most during this conversation?
82. What aspect of my personality did you find most interesting or revealing?
83. What learning or reflection do you take away from this experience of sharing with me?
84. How do you feel after talking openly and honestly about yourself?
85. What would you like to explore further in future conversations with me?
86. How do you think this talk has strengthened our friendship and connection?
87. What would you like me to remember about you after this conversation?
88. What question would you have liked me to ask you and why?
89. What topic or aspect of your life would you like to share in future conversations?
90. What would you like to ask me now to continue getting to know me better?
Through these 90 questions, you will be able to delve deeper into the life, thoughts, emotions, dreams and personality of your friends. Remember that sincerity, respect and empathy are fundamental in this process of mutual knowledge. Enjoy every conversation and strengthen your bonds of friendship!